I've been invited to a pool party; I decided not to go. First, I don't really know the hosts. We've exchanged messages on a bear social networking site and I met one half of the couple at the nearest bear/levi/leather bar back in October. Second, I'm not really supposed to be out in the sun; my blood pressure medication makes me overly susceptible to the sun. Yes there's sunblock but I've yet to find one that really protects me. The main reason I've decided not to go is that on the list of things to bring to the party, lube and condoms were listed. Now I'm not a prude. Sex is fun, and group sex can be a highly pleasurable event. But I like to know with whom I'm playing. And I know that if I went the sex part wouldn't be a requirement. But I'd just as soon not be in that awkward situation.
So that's my Saturday. BEHR HUGS!!