Behr Pick: Blue Monday?

I'm usually kind of blue on Mondays....but not this one. I'm only working three days this week. Count 'em....THREE! I'm ecstatic. No plans yet for Thursday (Veterans Day) or Friday except I won't be going to work. I still have the theater on Friday and Saturday night and Sunday afternoon; but the rest of the time is mine!

Try not to be jealous.

BEHR HUGS

Behr Blue: Date Update

My "date" cancelled on me.

I'm not terribly surprised and not terribly upset, to be honest. There were some red flags over the past week and by this morning I was fairly certain it was going to be a bust. Thankfully I have a backup plan (it's called Netflix).

He left me a message on the bear social networking site saying he was sorry but has to cancel our plans. I replied that I am sorry too and then I asked why. I don't expect an answer and I certainly doubt I'll hear from him. No harm no foul, eh?

OK maybe I am a little upset. I could start questioning what's wrong with me but this time I'm not doing that. I don't think I was dishonest or flaky or even remotely ax-murderer-in-waiting-ish. Maybe it was my sense of humor he didn't get. Or maybe someone better came along - and by that I mean better for him, certainly not better than me. And if that sounds arrogant, I apologize, but I may not be perfect but I'm a good catch. I'm kind, thoughtful, employed, have a working vehicle, own my home, have a sense of humor, and a variety of interests. I guess in today's world that's not something guys want. This experience is exactly why I don't date often; guys either cancel on me or turn out to be the freak du jour.

I'd appreciate some advice on finding decent, honorable, trustworthy men. Especially from all of you partnered men out there: how the hell did you find one worth keeping? It is perhaps a good thing that I learned long ago that being alone does not have to mean being lonely.

So that's the 4-1-1 on my date situation. The Behr bombs again! (I say that with a smile.) I hope your weekend fared better than mine. BEHR HUGS!!

Blue Tuesday

I've been spending my morning going through some junk in my spare bedroom and tossing a lot of crap out. Although it's a beautiful day out and I am being productive, I'm feeling a bit blue. I think it's a combination of feeling overwhelmed with stuff I need/want/should do, feeling a tad lonely, frustration over my PC/laptop situation, and coming across photos of my ex. *sigh*

I remembered a little while ago that Glee comes out on DVD today so in a short while I'm showering and heading off to Target. BEHR HUGS!!

Monday Blues

It's back to work for me today. I've been off since about Nov 20; and I really enjoyed being home. I shouldn't complain too much; I work the next two weeks in Los Angeles (home base), then a week in SF, then I'm off work for the rest of the year. Life is hard!!

It wasn't easy getting up at 4:30 again, especially after the restless night I had. But I'm up, dressed, fed, and morning chores are done and in a few minutes it's off to work.

BEHR HUGS!!

Blue

Blue

Feeling a bit blue today. It may be from a lack of sleep. Or maybe it's my time of the month. I hope to be right as rain tomorrow.