tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5938549632581079470.post4054290154802219913..comments2023-10-20T06:02:14.858-07:00Comments on Behr Blather: Confessions of a Home Wrecker Wannabebehrmarkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04084607872643904884noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5938549632581079470.post-57256955097500213842010-02-21T16:23:19.030-08:002010-02-21T16:23:19.030-08:00You're not the 1st one I've heard say &quo...You're not the 1st one I've heard say "I'm single so I'm not cheating" when they talk about being with a man who's in a relationship. But my response is "Would you still feel the same way is YOU were the partner being cheated on?" Karma can be a bitch. But more importantly, I believe we owe it to ourselves to be stand-up men.Mark in DEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12478832787656152843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5938549632581079470.post-19160947916743396202010-02-20T10:25:47.296-08:002010-02-20T10:25:47.296-08:00Behr, I think you're right that the straight w...Behr, I think you're right that the straight world doesn't get the idea of open relationships. I've known a number of very commited, devoted couples who have successful, open relationships (one couple together 36 years!). We all must make our own way on that. And I'm not sure how I'll end up on that (whenever I get into a relationship).<br /><br />I also know what it feels like to be the "other man". And I really don't like that feeling. Ugh. If both don't know and agree, then we are playing with fire. <br /><br />AND, as a fifties bear (and newly out) I have that deep deisre to "settle down" and snuggle up.Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5938549632581079470.post-83957690464799966892010-02-18T10:20:10.426-08:002010-02-18T10:20:10.426-08:00@Breenlantern: Thanks for sharing your opinion. Be...@Breenlantern: Thanks for sharing your opinion. Behr Hugs!behrmarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04084607872643904884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5938549632581079470.post-56502108416878779852010-02-18T08:14:52.731-08:002010-02-18T08:14:52.731-08:00I'm sorry, but I fail to see the correlation b...I'm sorry, but I fail to see the correlation between the sexual choices of consenting adults and civil rights. So only monogamous couples deserve their equality? when are we going to stop demonizing open couples? people have a right to whatever sexual reaktoonships they want with their partners. I don't tell you how to masturbate, whether to watch porn or not, what kinks and fetishes are appropriate or what gender you may have sex with, why us it anyones business whether a couple has sex only with each other or with others? I deserve my equality and civil rights no matter which gender or how many people I sleep with regardless of whether other people approve of my sexual choices or not. We need to stop feeding into the belief that wr have a right to deny people equality based on our disapproval of their sexual activity. After all, isn't that why lgbt people are 2nd class citizens in the first place? I dm do tired of monogamous people and couples assuming a place of moral superiority because of their sexual choices. Apparently, gays only want freedom to Make their own personal sexual choices but don't want to allow others to do the same. Wreaks of hypocricy if you ask me.Breenlanternhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17317914861018120156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5938549632581079470.post-442796660990793562010-02-17T18:56:17.177-08:002010-02-17T18:56:17.177-08:00That is one hilarious comment. I might have to us...That is one hilarious comment. I might have to use that on my blog!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com